The Bible is clear that children are to be looked upon as a blessing, not an inconvenience. They are a reward from God! Truly, children are a gift from God.
https://www.compassion.com/poverty/what-the-bible-says-about-children.htm
You don’t get the reward when you send those blessing away until you see and confess your sin of a missed mark.
So pray. And be ready to confess your sin or your child will only breeze by while you dear Mother will now forced to stand by while they rise above. Stuck in the cage of your sins making, you will rot and die having refuse Gods gift all the while.
Pay heed to the warnings of Children refused.
Or pay the consequences of your missed marks.