As Mamas day approaches as we wince and draw back for lack of even a place to send the love we have for our own Mamas. Cut off. Rerouted. Denied. All the words that contributes to our own mental destress.
Where are the Adoptee cards? Where are the cards that help us express ourselves and our love for both our Mamas?
These pics triggers us in ways that we’ve not been prepared to deal with because no one made a healthy viable way for us to deal with these holidays that mean even more to us than most.
How do we even identify with the first pic? Our Mamas were not always their? And just seeing this triggers a response that you can’t even deny or hold back and deny?
These picture draws up pain of denial and abuse at the hands of our caretaker adoption. When you look at an adoptee? I need folks to see. We are denied access to our family tree and it’s hurtful.
That’s the alarm I sound as a siren within adoption.
Wake up! Look at the affects!! Pay attention!! To truly affect change? We must look at what we have done in the past and also look at the affects. So that we can choose better.
Adoption as it stand right now? Is a half ass neck jerk reaction at best. We can do better than that now. And now is when we need to do something different to affect positive change on our future generation.
Mothers Day should be filled with joy. Trillions of children trapped inside adult bodies every year have a difficult time with this day due to some half has knee jerk reaction claiming to be a solution. We can clearly see it’s on moved us around on the board and cause much disruption to our family units as a whole, and affected the world unit as a whole if this monsters still lurking around gobbling up children and reaching havoc on us all.
Let’s get real. We are part of this cell that hangs in space. It’s time to grow up and act like who we are. And do better. We aren’t all kids here.