We Adoptees didn’t eve. Get to say, “no, I really don’t want that”. Our Noms got to say yes. Or no? We had to go and do what she said.
And if you think about it? This was naturally going to always come to this peek a boo show where Mamas still thinking she’s got a choice?
And it’s like nope? Universe is like, ” she had to experiences it, now you must watch and listen to what she went through”.
She did not get to tap out like you dear lady? And ladies. All of the bio Moms have to take this pill if they even want to heal and have anything worth remembering out of this?
And this is what loosing dead weight looks like. Ok? So pay attention if your counselor is not asking you the hard questions to make you come full circle and is pouring all your words into a file cabinet? Fire them. And don’t pay the bill.
Cuz healing is work folks.