Trying to show folks what Adoption means to the kid who was adopted is a job. Working to show the world what’s going on inside the head of this adoptee is a job. It’s take time and a willingness to look crazy to make folks see what Adoption really means beyond all the code names and dumb ideas.
Pulling the veil back and showing the hole Adoption leaves within the heart of the children relinquished is a hard thing. Because it means you must be honest and not be codependent and keep silent so as to not hurt anyone’s feelings. It means you take the hit and look ungrateful. God forbid an adoptee ever show ungratefulness, they say our other choice is only to be aborted.
What about making a world safe for another and child to stay together? Hmmm? What about that choice?