“I desire for Mothers to stop identifying with the act that made the child. And start seeing the gift of what a relinquished child is to God. We as adoptee MUST follow our hearts in these matters to gain equilibrium.” Excellent response! Very well stated. You have an intuitive understanding, appropriate perspective, worthy attitude, and honest way of discerning righteousness and honorable justice. I hope others will also inspired by your insightful perspective.