God sends the gifts/babies to the woman that need it.
Society deems what the fate or they work to do so and succeed with many who are unaware and vulnerable.
We must face the consequences of our actions as a society, to a collective people, like different colors and creeds.
We suck at such matters, that is what I see?
And that we need to work on that very thing more than ever.
The family unit is still a unit when separated. Look at the Jews! Each of us is connected forever in this time space realm to another by DNA, by design. Why? ARE? WE SEPARATING WHAT GOD IS TRYING TO BUILD? Why are we cutting families up in the name of progress? This is not progress? We digress when we put asunder, and separate.
We must work to create a better world and learn work with the higher laws that govern this very planet.
The way we deal with trashy, messy, inconvenient situations is horrible.
If a child is conceived without protections from a family, or such, that child is at risk of removal from its mother, not cared for while the Mother is educated? We cast her out like trash too? What the hell?
Our behaviors needs some addressing. Our Nurture future verses nature? Our ideals in a constitution apposed to a resolve of higher consciousness? Like who are we really pleasing to please in the moment without reference to tomorrow? What I mean is Adoptees lives have been altered by inhabitants of this planet, under authority of God.
And I am not please at all with my treatment in regards to my identity, and my ancestral belongings. I was forced into the witness protections program of some Adoptee naming. It is ridiculous that I even can speak of such things, but they continue today. More and more children are at risk of being removed from their Mothers care and the determent to both is high.
This is deeper than emotions, but emotions are key. It is hard wiring that we are messing with. Babies work to create cells within a Mother
So to separate a child from its Mother at such a crucial time in development is detrimental to the Mother, as well as the child. You have removed the childs guide, the childs linguist, the childs everything they just learned in utero is a program running within the child, and it does not stop when they are separated, most kids manage somehow, we adapt, but we are forever altered by the experience and sensitive as hell from those days on.
What I see is that Adoptees don’t even get to grieve a loss that this world deems is the rock, the salt and the betty crocker of the planet. Many of us have heard well meaning ignorant statements such as, “You have a Mother?” , Oh, honey, come step into my world and learn how this feels, cuz if you felt this? You would not be acting like that?
If this planet has designed this a way, what I see is we need to stop fucking with it. We do not understand still what we do? And Jesus said that how long ago?
I see a lot of Adoptees looking from behind the veil of secrecy, watching for a sign that they are safe to come out at last and show the scares that lie within them. So they can see the light of day and be healed.
I see that day in me. I see that day in you too. And I am the change I wish to see here. Truth is the only thing that can set us all free indeed.
Listen to this song my Adoptee, Birth Moms, and remember that a child is the best of two, woven together. No shame in that, no shame. But God wish to bless you both, we must walk through he darkness, but Jesus is there and if the lights were on, you would see you are in a safe place. So listen and know that the children, us, are all created in love and that love has been given away, but God is bring it back for a second look at what this universe has c created, and some parts are deemed ugly, but we will illuminate a love that no one can deny, within a world that is tearing it apart. Mother child love is the strongest love of all, you can not separate yourself from it, it is within your very fibers, DNA.
If you think about it, your Mamas in you right now. That is the message, and if you think about it, your babies is still in you right now. So why be separated anymore? Why?
I AM SAYING WHY IS IT SO HARD TO LOOK AT IT FROM OUR PERSPECTIVE?
EXPERIENCE, THAT IS WHY. NO CONTENT TO UNDERSTAND, WHICH IS THE BUILDING BLOCKS OF BRIDGES, BUT WITH EVERYONE HAVING IDEAS THAT DO NOT MATCH OUR EXPERIENCES? WHO CAN UNDERSTAND SOUTH PARK IF THEY DON’T WATCH IT?
So as we come out. And tell our experiences we all get a broader view of a narrow thinking thing. So I hope this has given you food for thought.
Love always, even if it tastes like hate.