What a high price to pay for bad planning or being inconvenient. If adoptee can live years without family then I feel the status quo needs changing. If people can just rearrange folks then we need to stop putting so much pressure on Mothers who give there kids away.
Adoption is a three edged sword. And it cuts all directions. No one is without a scare from it. But how did these wounds begin in the first place? That’s what I want to bring light too.
Adoption no more helps the child as fly to the moon. And adoption no more helps the Mother than fly to the moon. And adoption not more helps the adoptive mother than fly to the moon. Except when you look at it spiritually. If you can look at it from a higher vantage point you can see how a trauma can cause a person to grow i there capacity to exert great amounts of empathy toward those who are less empathetic.
When people exert empathy they turn the tide of emotions towards balance. Empathy is what saves us all. When we realize grace is a gift. But we must recieve it. And we must extend it. For to give is to recieve.
I speak of the many sides of adoption. And in doing so it may become confusing for you to keep up. But I will try to
Answer any questions you have as soon as I can. Thank you for showing up. Blessings.